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Sunday, June 30, 2013

Some Family Time

My first impressions of my host family discouraged me yesterday, but my time today with them really countered my initial feelings. After going out with my family and spending time with them in the house, my anxiety disappeared. I went grocery shopping with my host mom and cousin, explored the neighborhood with my sister, and spent time watching tv with my grandfather. At the grocery store, my host mom kept asking me what I want, and went around looking for slippers, water bottle containers, and anything else she thinks I may need. She asked if I wanted ice cream, and when I said sure, she took a generous amount of ice cream tubs with different flavors. My grandpa really enjoys watching tv, so I joined him and we talked about different things showing up on the news (like bullet trains). I feel a strong connection with my host sister, and I know we will have a great relationship this next month and a half. She's extremely nice, helpful, funny, and someone I would definitely choose to have as a sister if given the choice. We benefit each other because she's learning English and I'm learning Chinese, so we converse back and forth using those languages (I usually speak to her in Chinese and she replies in English). Also, when we see something, she asks what it is called in English, and then I ask what it's called in Chinese. Today she took me to different places around our house, and I ended up buying some bread and boba milk tea. She told me that when she bought milk tea in Mongolia, they put yolk in it and also made it salty, not sweet. Tomorrow I'll be leaving the house with her at 6:30 AM so that she can show me how to take the bus to the host institution. I love her and I can't wait to spend more time with her!

I'll start school tomorrw, and the host institution will be putting us into three different groups. The NSLI-Y officers said don't worry about the groups because there is no ranking, but today the host institution teachers showed us the classrooms and explained specifically that one is the beginning group, one is the middle group, and one is the advanced. Based on the pre program tests and the two tests I took today, I think I'll be either in the beginning or middle group, which I don't mind.

Saturday, June 29, 2013

Breakfast is the Most Important Meal of the Day

Today everyone is meeting at the host institution at 10 AM, but I woke up at 7 AM because I didn't feel like sleeping anymore. When I got out of my room, my grandfather was surprised and said, "ahh! ni chi lai le?" (ahh! you woke up?). I don't know why, but that made me laugh, and he laughed too. I just had breakfast, and I am really full. I had dou jiang (soymilk), you tiao (a type of deep fried pastry). yu you tan (fish head soup), and a white peach. My family doesn't keep asking me to eat more and more during meals, which is contrary to what most Chinese people do. I guess that's good because I won't feel bad when I stop eating. It was only my host sister, host grandmother, and I eating breakfast because everyone else was sleeping.
 
I'm deathly afraid of mosquitoes. When I first entered my room last night, I saw the window wide open, without any screens to prevent insects from coming in. My bed has a mosquito net, so I zipped it up tightly. I can feel them following me with a watchful eye, and even some were on the mosquito net waiting for me. I haven't gotten bit, and I sure hope it stays that way.
 
The members in my host family are different than a normal mom, dad, sister, and grandparents. On the host family info paper that NSLI-Y sent me, it shows that I have a host father, mother, sister, and grandparents. When I was introduced to them, I found out that I'm not living with my host father. He's living in a different city, and my family moved to Hangzhou so that my sister and cousin could attend school here. I'm currently living with my uncle, mother, sister, cousin, and grandparents (mom's side). My host grandmother is the one who cooks in the house, and she also plays a lot of games on the computer. It's similar to my grandmother in Fresno who lives with my aunt because she cooks in the house and plays mahjong on the computer.
 
It's 8:41 am, and I'll be leaving at 9 am for school. We're takng another two tests to re-check what level of Chinese we are on. I don't really remember many characters, so I'm a bit nervous for it. Our resident director, D (his name is David but we call him D), is going to take us to exchange money today. So...I guess today is officially my first full day in Hangzhou!
 
 
 
 
 

Flight and Hangzhou!


I'm currently on a United Airlines flight to Shanghai, and it's been a nice trip so far. The ride is approximately 14 hours, and after all these months of anticipation for the program, I have 8 hours and 29 minutes left until I finally step foot onto my host country. At first I was a bit upset because my seat in the plane is smack in the middle column in the middle seat, but then the person next to me began talking to me and it drew out to be a long conversation. He first asked me in Chinese, "你 要 回 家 嗎?" (are you returning home [China]?) I tried to explain NSLI-Y and what I'll be doing in China in Chinese, but the words kept coming out in incomplete sentences. He seemed to somewhat understand, but he then just told me, "It's okay, I can speak English." He said he's been to Hangzhou, Suzhou, Xi'an, Shanghai, and other cities many times, and this year he'll be going to Hangzhou as part of his trip. I asked him lots of questions about Hangzhou and what's nice there; he told me that much of the cuisine there has a more sweet flavor (like sweet and sour pork), and that there are specific types and qualities of teas I should search for. His English is actually very, very good. He's the Vice President of a company, and he's going to China on a business trip. He also told me that he collects all kinda of traditional Asian instruments, and he really enjoys music. I even asked him if he knew specific instruments from Burma, and he did. He was so excited talking about instruments that he showed me a video of university students in the US playing them, and they were AMAZING. There was this one professor that played a very high-pitched trumpet, along with a bigger trumpet. He then sang, and oh my goodness his voice eas so unique! His voice went so high that he sounded like Alvin and the Chipmunks, but without the need of technology. The man who showed it told me that this is a call that used to be a custom in China in the hills, so they had to be loud. While we were getting our meals, he said that instant noodles were given out once for the passengers during his ride in the past, and a few people didn't know how to eat it, so they just tried to bite into the hard, dry noodles. He's actually sitting right next to me as I write this. For meals I had two special Asian vegetarians that I requested, and the second meal was just a small slider with ice cream. 

After arriving in Shanghai, we took a 3 1/2 hour bus ride to Hangzhou. Hangzhou is very modern and it's pretty, too. The roads and sidewalks are neat and clean, but you still have to be mindful when you're walking.There's even a separate road for bikes! 

When we arrived at the host institution, we received phones, were introduced to the teachers, and then united with our host families! I expected dinner to be homemade, but we went out to eat dinner instead. When I met my grandparents, both were so surprised because I'm Chinese. Honestly, I felt a bit awkward because we didn't talk much during dinner, and my family seems a bit more formal. We were told at the PDO that they would ask lots of personal questions, but they didn't ask any of that sort. After we got home, I felt more comfortable because we were involved in a conversation and began warming up after I gave them their gifts. Did you know that their apartment is on the sixth floor, and there's no elevator? Well, I guess it's healthy since I'll be going up and down those stairs every day. My host mother actually travels to the US sometimes, and I have a host cousin living with us! She's 14 (just a year younger than I am). Tomorrow there will be more things to do at the institution, so I'll post more in a few days!
(I have more to tell you about my host family, and that'll be in my future posts).


On the flight to Shanghai.


Asian vegetarian meal.



Bus ride




gift from host family 


my room! 


 




















 





















Thursday, June 27, 2013

PDO


So today we had our PDO (pre departure orientation), and it lasted roughly 10 hours. We are all staying at the Embassy Suites and walked over to the American Councils Office for it. We sat in the conference room during the orientation, and it was nice because when we walked into the room, a folder, papers, a notepad, and a pen were there for our use. Our program manager and officers discussed about what to expect, our schedule, how the overall program will work, how to be successful during our time in China, the normal behaviors of people there, health, safety, and many other fun topics. They said not to eat any of the street foods and also not to eat any cold foods (like salads). We were informed that 80% of us will probably get diarrhea and/or vomit since our stomachs aren't used to having food there. Our schedules are packed: four hours of language learning, cultural activities, at least 2 hours of homework each day, exams every week, tests to check our progress, projects, excursion homework, and all sorts of other things on top of that. I'm also going to make much room to spend time with my host family and explore the city to get a sense of the culture and the people there. Not only that, but I have summer reading from my school for English honors. I just hope I'll be able to improve my Mandarin so that I can speak to and understand my viola teacher more.

At the end of the day, we received t-shirts, and it's American Apparel! The fabric is soft and the color is like a mint green. Everyone began to use the t-shirts as a blanket because it was freezing in the room! (including me). I highly suggest bringing a jacket if you ever go to the American Councils Office conference room. We have to wear them tomorrow when we leave to China because it'll be easier for us to spot each other in the airport. I don't think I missed anything I wanted to say, so I'll just go to sleep. We have to meet at 2:30 AM in the lobby and it's 9:45 PM right now. Can't wait to finally leave to China!


  







Saturday, June 22, 2013

In Just a Few Days

I'm leaving to Washington, D.C. for my pre-departure orientation in FIVE DAYS! It hit me so fast. I remember anxiously waiting for more information from American Councils and NSLI-Y about the program a few months ago, and now I'm finally preparing to leave...time flies! My flight departs early Wednesday morning to D.C., so I'll have to wake up at 5 or 6 AM. Also, everyone leaving to Hangzhou after the pre-departure orientation will have to wake up at 2 AM to get ready and travel from the hotel to the airport. It's going to be pretty tiring, but it's all worth it! This is basically my itinerary--

June:  LA - DC 
          DC - Chicago
          Chicago - Shanghai (approx. 15 hours & no transit flights)

August:   Shanghai - Chicago 
              Chicago - LA

I also received information about my host family, and I'll be living with the Fang Family! My parents' works relate to business, and my host sister will be attending the same high school as I do. Along with them, I'll be living with a grandmother and grandfather. 
          
I've done absolutely no packing so far, and I really should start. I have everything I need (including all the gifts for my host family), and I also created a list, but packing is tiresome to me. It's exciting to know that everything I'm placing into my luggages will be what I'll be taking to Hangzhou, but I wish everything could magically pack by itself. Speaking of what I'll be bringing to Hangzhou, I created a video for my host family! I was initially going to create a scrapbook or album about my life in LA, but my brother suggested making a video. I compiled one on iMovies after gathering some past photos and videos and also taking some recently. It was actually quite fun...more enjoyable than I first thought! I uploaded my video to youtube and burned it onto a DVD, and here's the link to it (I marked it as unlisted so that people only with the link have access to it).
 I better start packing, so I'll probably post more when I'm at or on my way to DC!

BTW sorry if the video makes you a bit dizzy.